Steve Writes About Our Recent BlogTalkRadio Broadcast…

by Amara Charles on November 30, 2008
in Fan Mail

Dear Amara,
I was excited about the tantra broadcast this evening regarding male ejaculation - I’ve gotten a lot of different messages during the 3 years or so that I’ve been studying tantra, so I was looking forward to the teachings and debate.

My own experience is that I’m able to delay ejaculation, but that if I do it too much I get “blueballs”, get sensitive in unpleasant ways. So I orgasm sometimes. The most wonderful thing I’ve found when I don’t orgasm with a partner is how wonderfully cuddly I feel towards her afterwards. I’ve only been able to have non-ejaculatory orgasms a couple times, in the 3 years I’ve been practicing.

I was really grateful that you made your different perspective clear. You’re so much more grounded and compassionate.

Thank you.
Steve

NOTE:
You can listen and call in to discuss a variety of topics each week on Quantum Sexuality Magazine’s BTR Show every Thursday evening at 10 pm EST, 9 pm CST, 8 pm RMT and 7 pm PST. Here’s a link to hear the show Steve is referring to: